REVENGE

This is all about a play of circumstances in a persons life. I wanted to make it interesting so I choose this different format of writing. I hope you like this...!!!!

Revenge seems to be a harsh word in every ones mind. It is not taken by all it into their brains, but the one who takes it must be the victim of some circumstance.  This path cant be chosen by everyone because it is not a solution, but many discuss and support a revenge will be a perfect answer. So taken that into mind this story is all about the circumstance which made a person take the path of revenge as a part of his normal life.

Taken from a persons Diary notes the story had been reduced from its original.

Three years of college was great, but the problems I faced was more than the enjoyment I had in my college life. It all happened by a girl and a friend of mine who left all his other friends for that girl. I was a normal guy when I entered college, I never wanted to get into any problem. You can also term me as your soft natured friend. I had lots of friends throughout my college, I used to talk with everyone in my college which was my usual character. College life was a living hell but we enjoyed that hell as it was. But we never knew the problems would turn so worse one day. I never knew all this would happen and would make me like this. I could never forget some incidents in my life which is still in my brain covering half part of my brain. It all started worse when Incident number 2 happened which made me change as an animal.

Everyone is this world has two faces, they show the one and only some show the second, those who show it are termed as Psycho's, serial killers, murders and criminals. This second face is showed only when some unusual incident happens in their lifes and make them show their faces. My second face which I never knew I had came into life my this Incident 2.

Incident 2 :

When I was rushing to my class to get My I.D card from that girl who caused lots of problems the day before. I was asked to just say sorry and get my I.D card back from her. I was waiting for her when all my friends were asking me about the problem and were sorry for the incident which has happened. But I was so tensed to answer anyone so I just kept quite while my other friends who were in the Incident 1 was telling others the thing that happened. She entered the room with that friend of her and an dishonest friend of mine who leaded me into this problem. I went near her and asked her about my I.D card. She ordered me to come out and talk with her. I went out and she started to shout at me. I folded my hands first time in my life in front of a girl and patiently listened to her. She shouted that she will file a case against me saying that I  was teasing her which I have never done. I was so much in my fumes but I controlled my self saying Sorry for what I have done and asked her to give me my I.D card. But she turned her face towards that guy and asked him what should be done to me as if I did some thing wrong. Then it was this guys turn, I went near him since he was my friend and pleaded him not to make this one a big issue, I even called him last night to discuss about this and asked him to help me getting out of this issue which he said he will. But this guy all of the sudden gave the I.D card to that girl and asked her to do what ever she wants to do and he wont say a word against that. I was literally taken back. That moment I was already angry on her talking like that, to add more to it this guy told like this. I controlled my self not to hit that girl and was quite. After that she threw the I.D card on my face. Which I must say is the biggest mistake ever done my her in her life which she will repent for the years to come. And that was the moment which made that animal inside me to get up. I was not able to be normal after this which made my life to take a wrong turn. It is only the circumstance that can make a man good or bad, my circumstance were really bad which never allowed me to be good. So I choose this path.

Not only this one incident has made this person a living animal, but I can say that this incident was also a important reason for him taking his revenge. The following is the incident 1 which made him kill all his good attributes and to gave rebirth to the animal inside him.

Incident 1 :

I was happy that today's exam was so easy and what made me even more happy was the fact that there were only 2 more exams left.  As happy as ever I was talking with my friends inside the college when suddenly a car came close to me and asked me to accompany them. I didnt know why they were calling me inside and without giving me time to think they pulled me inside the Car and drived off from the college. After stopping at a dead end of a road they pushed me outside and asked me  "am I a rowdy",? I replied no to them. They didnt allow me to talk a word. They were 4 and I was the only one who was getting hits from them every second. They asked me why did I send the mail to my friend. I told them he only asked like that so only I sent a mail like that. But they were there to hit me so they played nicely with me. At that moment I wanted to kill them all, But I didnt do that, thinking of the life of my sister. I was a soft guy, but they made me to kill my soft nature by myself, and that treatment which I received from them made me forget things. They were politeness, empathy, and fear.

I wanted to know what was in that mail that the guy has mentioned in his notes, but I couldn't find anything of that in those bits. While I am here trying to find the rest of the story in a few days and will keep you posted........


Thanks

This is just a work of fiction......

FAITH - A story of a girl's Love

The world faith just seems to be like a normal one. But in reality Faith plays a very important role. Faith is a stronger trust which we have on a person or belief. Love is also a belief. God cant be seen anywhere is this world, but we still believe that he exists some where. Love also cant be seen out so easily. But the conception of the parents on love is, its bad and it changes the life into a different way. In a country like India where parents plays a important role in the growth of the children the fact is that, most of the parents do not understand their children totally. Even though they love them as their lives the power of their understanding is very low. There may be some exceptions but in reality the majority of them don't. At a point when they find that their children are in love the majority of them change against their children. That's the biggest mistake done in Indian families and when its a girl who is in love, the parents themselves ruin her life. They do many things against them, the most painful things they do against their daughters is that they lose the faith in them. A girls love is always painful than the boys love. That is the reason they take so much of time to think to accept his love. The problems they face in their families is also more than that of a guy facing his problem. How much can a parent change if they come to know about their daughter is in love and How will be the life of that girl in her own sweet home change and what happens of the loss of faith of her parents. Here comes to answer all these. A story which I consider as my epic. FAITH.........

To be posted shortly.....

SMOKING

I would like to start with this post by saying everyone that I have started to smoke. Many of my friends know about this and I would like to thank and say sorry to all of them. They advised me a lot when hey came to know that I am smoking. They are still angry on me with this and they feel for themself about me starting to smoke. I would like to tell one thing to all of you, "Love you all". I know this one word wont make any difference in any of your thoughts. But I would promise you that I wont catch this as a habit. I know I am spoiling my health because of this and that's what make you worried and angry towards me. I made many of you think that I dont care a shit about your advices, but in reality its not like what you think. I dont want this King size tube to disturb my life which I wanted to live King Size. everything has its end and I will put that end soon. Thats what I can assure you now and SORRY again.

You might think why I have made this topic. Its not that I support smoking. I can very well say smoking is not just a bad habit, its an addiction. The best addiction in the world. So what makes people like me to smoke it? Its just the mind set of people. Many have taken this from their fathers, many from film stars, many to know what's there in it. I came to know about a father who quit his smoking when he came to know his son is taking Cigarrets from his packet. Everyone knows its bad and many has left smoking where as many are trying to stop it and me, just started.

I dont take this as a matter of pride, but it depends from the mind set of the person. For me, I would like to know about everything in this world. Its just Know it and leave it. Life is a short one, there are many things all around us called good and bad. You have to know both that's my concept. Its also a connection with the age factor. A kid does thing what he has to do for his age, he is happy with that. A child does things what he should do and he is happy with that and finally a teenager must do what ever he should do in his age. Its only that we should not miss our life by giving these things importance. I meant these should be parts of life what we live.

I dont go philosophical, because every one loves their live and want that to be as they wish. The problem is that opinion what they have towards us. They think we are good, but the truth is that we are not. Everyone has his own flaws. But they dont have the courage to express it. I personally feel that one should'nt have his own opinion about me, rather I tell him what I am. The first thing I did when I started smoking was that telling my mom that I have started to smoke. I don't want them to think what I am not.

And for the parents, I would appreciate if you dont make a issue when your son/daughter starts smoking. If they tell you that they smoke, rather than shouting think about the love that he /she has for you, which made them not to lie to you.Yes, Its a bad habit, rather than shouting them advice them about the consequences, which he will never get into their head. That's because of their age and you cant be blamed. They will stop it when they comes to know their health is spoiled or come out of it when they knows that there is nothing in it. Which is the truth.

Coming back to smoking, its just a feeling that makes you good when you smoke. But as everyone knows its a slow poison. The climate where I live currently in so cold which makes me smoke and I wont blame the climate alone, but its also my intrest towards it. I would tell you one thing firmly, every smoker knows about its fault, so he will reduce it and then he will stop it or he may stop when he comes to know that his son is smoking from his packet. And that Life :)

In a foreign Country!!!

Hi ppl..

Hope everything is going out well in your lives. Its been a very long time since I put my hand on the keyboard to write things (except fb chats, assignments and g talk chats). And the most special thing is that, this is my first blog post outside my country. As many of you guys know I am now currently doing my Masters in Banking in United Kingdom. So I wanted to tell you people how it feels when your in a foreign land.

I still can’t forget the day when I was standing in the Chennai Airport terminal on the other side of the bars where my parents where standing opposite to me separated by the metal bars. I was exited. Thrilled to get into the Flight and start my career into the next level. Where on the other hand, my mother and father are crying because of the fact that I won’t be able to torture them for some years in their house. It took me a very hard path to come to this level so me, on the other hand was happy and contented. I don’t say that I am not a man of feeling but I am totally different in some situations of life.

In 14 hrs I reached Manchester,I could feel the cold climate because it was 12 in the night. I called my mother from the airport but her bad luck; she didn’t attend my call because in India it was 4 o clock in the morning. After that I called Pooja , yes she picked the call. I knew she will be waiting for my call (Thanks to her College I.V). After that called the one who was previously my close friend and she also took the call and I told her about the things. After that I had to catch a train to the place I am going to live for the next 2 years, Bangor. I got a train to Bangor and reached there by 2 o clock. I would likely mention and thank here Mr. Harinath who was such a sweet brother and whom I will never ever forget in my life. Mr. Hari told about us to his friends and they came there at 2.10 A.M to pick us from the station and made us to stay with them in their house. You must be wondering why am I mentioning the word "us".. I didn’t tell you guys about him na.. He is Shiva. Another sweet person who came with me for studying in my same univeristy. Will tell about him in my up coming posts.!!!

I was provided a room in my University Halls. I slept as soon as i reached their place. On the other hand, back in India my mother was so much worried about me because she haven’t heard from me for a long time. (She missed my call what can I do about that??) She called to Hari who was actually in India and got the number of the person with whom I was and called me at 6 in the morning. Wahoo!! Great work Mummy!! :)

At the start of the next day I went to the University Halls. I felt the air when I came out of the house. I just can’t express the feeling of that. Got my new and went to my new room!!! wow that was just awesome. I loved it on the whole. The place where my University is located is just awesome. It’s a small University Town. Surrounded by very few native welsh people and the rest a lot are students of the university. There are not racial activities, discrimination and other nasty stuffs. The people are so nice and I just love them all.. Love you Bangor :)

This is just my feeling in a foreign land.. But there are many things which I learnt here where back in our country we can never learn all these. Trust me, I am not joking.. But those are reserved for the next!! Love you all

HUGS

Hello everyone. Sorry for the long gap. I was busy with my personal works. TIME plays a very important role in my life. But I am not able to spend time for my favorite things. So after a long time i found my TIME to write this blog.

As the name says, my new Post is about HUGS. Before writing about this I made a survey which involved my Facebook friends where I asked them what they feel about hugs and weather hugging opposite sex is right or wrong.

As I expected, there were many who made fun of this topic. They were asking "What is wrong in giving a hug you Dumbo"? I patiently listened to them and here comes my answer in this Post. Coming back to the survey many said Hugging is a good way of expressing our love and many very genuinely said I do mind if my girl friend Hugs someone. I first want to Thank each and every friend who made their comments. HUGS to you all!!

When I wanted to write about this topic an NIR friend of mine was kidding me saying "what is there in Hugging a Opposite sex? Are you mad" ?? So all my North Indian Friends and International Friends read this to know what Hugs means in India, to be precise in Tamil Nadu!!!

HUGS is a way of expressing an affection. It is a wonderful way of expressing your love and care on them. Hugs are very common in the Metro's where a guy and girl hugs in front of crowd or a large gathering. But in South India except the major metros such as Bangalore, Hyderabad and some parts of Chennai the rest do not agree hugs. They don't accept the concept of Hugs. Even in Chennai if a guy and a girl hugs every ones attraction will be deviated towards them. We don't accept HUGS so easily here. What is the Problem out here??

The main fact is that the people out here were brought up in a situation where they were not allowed freely to talk with their sisters or even daughters after a certain age. The people were so Conservative about these things and kept checks on these things. They give respect and maintain distance while taking with the females physically which is continued till now. Due to the modernization there were changes in many Parts of India but the change was very small in number. Down here the changes were very low where still in many Parts they still maintain many regulations. Even though we say that we are modern and not the conservative type, it is said that 95% of our guys do not accept their girl friends or wives hugging some one else, even though they say they like being Social.

A Physiological fact says that guys like their mother a lot and Girls like their Fathers more than their Mothers. It is true through out the world. But in India after a certain age they don't be close with their children as they were before. The problem is with the society who don't accept these things. I have an shocking Incident which happened in my Cousin sisters marriage. After her marriage I went and gave a hug to my sister which her in-laws didn't like and advised her not be free like this here after. I was really shocked hearing their statement. What the hell is wrong when a brother hugs his sister ?? This is one known incident which happened in my life, but there are many incidents like this which we are not aware of.

People think that Hug is just a physical thing, they don't understand the value of the term. Times have changed and there are many changes in the Society in very aspect. The conservative type of parents please understand that HUGGING is not a wrong thing, its just giving your care to someone. Give that to your children, your mom, your friends and see what happiness you derive from it and tell them you are there for them always in their life. Accept when your son/daughter gives you a Hug and when he/she gets a Hug.

Everything is about the minds of the people which has to change.Even though you don't accept Hugs please don't give weird looks when you see some one sharing a hug. Some things are hard to accept, but I want the people to change their way they see towards the Concept of Hugs.

For the ones who uses HUGS in other way, You guys please don't spoil the wonderful word Hug!!! This One is only dedicated to the ones who "wants to Hug" but not able to Hug their best friends.

MANY HUGS!!!

ULAGA TAMIZH SEMMOZHI MANADU-2010_Coimbatore

As the name indicates I am here to talk about a Political issue. Usually everyone thinks that youths are not interested in politics but in today's world many number of Graduates are interested in Politics and they show lots of concern towards it, except from joining in it. I am one among the many who shows their concern towards Politics. But the above mentioned topic has nothing in connection with this post except for the last word COIMBATORE. This sudden thought got into me seeing the things happening in and around Coimbatore and in a selfish reason to discuss some different thing apart from love and friendship in my Blog!!

World Classical Tamil Conference is going to be held in Coimbatore in 2010. When this was confirmed I was so happy and proud because this major event is going to be held in my place.

To say a few words about Coimbatore, its a very beautiful place which has the second sweetest water in this world from the SIRUVANI river. The climate is very mild and soft throughout the year. Coimbatore attracts most of the people because of its climate. Even though my place is well know it is not fully developed. It is the fact that Coimbatore has not been cared by the present political party or the Previous parties. Coimbatore has been developed so much only by its people. The most famous N.M.Mahalingam,G.D Naidu, PSG Gropus, Laxmi Mills and other Business people developed this place of them which no one can deny. With out any Political support Coimbatore was developed well compared to other big cities in Tamil Nadu which made the political parties eye on Coimbatore.

From the day of the announcement of the World Classical Tamil Conference we fond great amount of development in the town. The major roads of the town such as Avinashi Road, Thrichy Road and Mettuplayam Road has been elaborated and constructed in the same time disturbing the people of these places. Six way lanes was introduced in Avinashi Road and was constructed fully and after that they came into a Idea of fixing the electricity lines underground and for this the roads were again demolished and the work is still taking place.

Dozens of new buses were thrown into the city by the government. They decided to make Coimbatore City beautiful introducing many new artificial parks near the signals and making a new pavements for walkers in the corner of the roads. Now Trichy Road work is on the go. A 6 months work will be done in just a months time because of the Conference.

I am happy that my place is developing. But ashamed for the reason behind all this. It is a not a Government who is developing this, it is a political party who is behind all these things. I cant be selfish and shut up my mouth just because of the reason, they are developing my place. If they can make tremendous change within a short period to my place why cant they bring betterment to other places in Tamil Nadu. If only a political party can do these things why cant the Government bring these changes in all parts of India. No one can say it is Impossible, because more or less they have achieved these in a very short time here. If this is possible then it can be possible in any place. Time or money is not a constraint here. I wish they conduct this type of Conference in all places ever year so that those places can also be developed.

You may think why I mentioned this a Political Issue at the start of my Post. This may not be a big issue but there are many Political factors at the back end of this Conference. I want to write in a diplomatic way so I avoided those things in this Forum!!

Friendship, In a different way!!

Hello everyone. Sorry to take a long break, was busy with my semester and other stuffs. I am happy to share with you all that my blog has been rated 31st rank throught India in Indiblogger forum. Thanks to you all for giving me the confidence to write more and more!!

This time I choose a very simple topic but going to discuss some different things in that.

"FRIENDSHIP" - The most beautiful relationship in a persons life. Everyone in this world have friends for them. It starts from kinder garden to junior grade, High School to College and in our Work place. Now due to the modernization of the world we find friends even through Internet in Social Networking sites. Whether we know the value of Friendship or not some people like Büyükkökten and Aaron Greenspan knew it and now they make hell a lot of money with it. For those of you who are not aware of them they are the Founders of Orkut and Face book. The very famous Social Networking Sites.

Before you start reading what follows I want you to think a friend of yours in your mind.

Our studies started in the Kinder Gardens, we started to learn the outside world from that point and we started to spend most of our Times outside our homes from that age. We started to miss our parents for the first time and came away from them at least for some hours and mingled with a same age group of persons and there comes the bonding of the word Friendship. It is not just a word actually.

So after parents, Friends takes a very important role in a persons life. At every point of time there may be a person, a friend who might have helped in our tough situation. Life without friends is really very worse. But life with friends can also be worse. I don't know or rather I don't believe whether you are going to agree with my point or not but I wanted to tell you the other side of things. Controversy starts from here!!

First talking about the lighter side, What does Friendship gives us - Happiness, Affection, love and many more things. Friendship gives this all to us. It is the first relationship which we get into in our life. When we are in a group we forget all our sorrows and we tend to forget our darker side. We share things which we cant share with our parents and in some cases Friends become more important than our parents. Friendship total is Happiness. We have lots of friends we give them a call and talk with them all night, text them 24x7 wish them for their birthdays, give them a surprise party , outings, hugs, kisses and what more, many more....

So we enjoy these stuffs with our friends. But i have always wondered one thing in people including me. We all know FRIENDSHIP is such a lovely relationship but even in that we have many separations. Everyone cant be our Friends. Friendship itself comes only by selection, we select the one who can adjust with us and we call them Friends and if someone is not adjustable we say that have attitude so its tough to be with them. But even in our Friends we do differentiate them by close friend, best friend, true friend and whatever. Why does this differentiation come and when the hell did it come into us?? Have you ever thought about this?? I think it as a shame.

Of course, we cant blame any individual here because we have grown up like that. Fine let it be you have close friends, best friends, true friends. Are you the same with everyone?. No, we are not. We show many many difference in friends itself. We share some things with one set of friends and one set of this to others. So i suppose none of us are true to the word FRIENDSHIP including me. I don't care of what others thing by this attitude of mine but this is a reality and I think this has to change. I have a strong feeling that there cant be exceptions in this case. I know the fact that we are just humans our attitude cant change so heavenly suddenly.

Going closer into the fact of Friends and Friendship. I mentioned already before that Friendship has so many values to our lives. But I say Friendship changes according to ages and environment. In kinder Garden you will have a friend and that friend wont be there in your school. In Schools we have two levels, in Junior Grade some one will be your friend and in Middle Grade Friends changes. In high school you will have a friend and it goes good until you finish your college considering school and college are in same location but that Friendship also changes with change of Place of Work. I Strongly admit that there are many exceptions. But you also strongly agree that Friendship changed with ages and environment. If you are still the same in your friendship I BLOW MY HEAD DOWN FOR YOU!! but if not....

I guess that Childhood friendship is the best throught what we would have in our lives, because that friendship doesn't have any ego, we don't have any hatred, we love our friends like anything, we don't have any possessiveness feeling towards anyone. But as ages goes through we get these all. In a adolescence period the first problem which strike in friendship is Possessiveness, but this rapid feeling obviously comes between the opposite sex friends. The most famous problem that we all might have come across. We love our friends too much and that we expect them to be with us every time and if not there comes fights, misunderstanding and even separations. We have many times come across situations where two friends got separated due to possessiveness problem between them, you cant disagree this.

Another most important problem is expectations. We tend to make others believe that we don't expect anything from our friends. But that is totally wrong, everyone expects some things or other from friends. From a birthday wish to regular call if they don't full fill our expectations the problem starts inside Friendship. I came to understand from many life examples that friendship is not just loving some one but mostly its the expectations and fulfilling that expectations. If we don't fulfill that expectations there comes separations.

As i mentioned before friendship is just selection among different people out of those who adjust with you. This may not be a very important factor but it is a criteria of selecting a friend. We usually think that Friendship comes by understanding but it also has to satisfy factors like expectations and adjustment to make your friendship a valid one. A Friendship can sustain only by adjusting with that friend. I know its hard to believe but your conscience know whether what I say is right or wrong.

But FRIENDSHIP is not expecting things or fulfilling the expectations or even adjustablity of that person. Considering these factors only we have made separations in our mind as close friends, best friends and true friends. Friendship has to come from heart as a felling towards their friend. Your brain should never decide who your friend is. Tats really bad that majority of us give chance to the brain to decide our friends.

My Intention is not to talk bad about friends or friendship but to tell you the darker sides in a friendship that we even never thought of.

So for those of you who think what friendship is, this tells you what friendship in Reality is.


In the start I told you to think about a friend of yours. In the end how many friends came across your mind reading this post. That is FRIENDSHIP!! ( and that is my success too )


VERY IMPORTANT POINTS FOR MY READERS:

1. I mentioned very important points because this is a very sensitive topic and you can easily get angry on me. I am happy if you get angry by reading this hoping there are many true friends in this world!!

2. My intention is just make you understand the other side of FRIENDSHIP, I don't tel that this side is bad but this side can be avoided.

3. As a well known thing, even I accept that differentiations in friendship is unavoidable and only some can become close to you.

4. In spite of all these problems(which are not even fully recognized even now) FRIENDSHIP is the best relationship. I agree!!

5. I am not bigger person than you, I cant make any big difference in friendship, but I wanted a small change. So this post was born!!